Random Ramblings

Reflections on my walk with God

Let your yes mean yes….

Leave a comment

In my meandering walk through #Rom2Rev, I have just re-read the book of James. I am reminded that the Old and New testiments have very different instructions in many things and one in particular caught my eye (again) – taking vows or oaths. As was often the case Jesus turned the old ideas on their heads.

In numbers 30:1-16 there are very specific instructions about taking vows and in particular, about the vows taken by women. In this long and detailed passage the message is that women can only make vows if those vows are approved by their father (if they are unmarried) or husband (if they are married). It is incredibly convoluted and as with many of the OT laws/rules must have made life difficult, particularly for women.

Reading this passage as part of a YouVersion plan last year, I looked at the views of other YouVersion readers for their thoughts. I noticed that most are pondering why women were not allowed to make up their own minds. However, some writers have taken this passage as instructions that even today we women cannot make our own decisions, but that we must always defer to our father and subsequently our husband or Pastor!

We no longer live in Old Testament times, we are not bound by the rules and regulations that the Ancient Jews had to follow.

We are commanded by Jesus not to make vows at all.

Matthew 5:33-37.
“Again, you have heard that the ancients were told, ‘You shall not make false vows , but shall fulfill your vows to the Lord .’ But I say to you, make no oath at all, either by heaven, for it is the throne of God, or by the earth, for it is the footstool of His feet, or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King . Nor shall you make an oath by your head, for you cannot make one hair white or black. But let your statement be, ‘Yes, yes’ or ‘No, no’; anything beyond these is of evil.

This is reiterated by the Lord’s brother in James 5:12
But above all, my brethren, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or with any other oath; but your yes is to be yes, and your no, no, so that you may not fall under judgment.

Jesus tells us to simply let our Yes mean Yes and our No mean No!


Author: triciafrasman

Updated April 2017! When I started this blog I was very much a "young" Christian and still very much finding my way. This year I celebrate my 10th rebirth day in June and so must think of myself as at least an adolescent Christian, but this blog is still about my meandering walk with God. I became a Mother at 41 - and that colours much of how I live my life. When asked at about 4 what Mummy's most important job was, my daughter did not hesitate to say" Looking after me". I will drop anything that I am doing if my family needs me. My family come first and I think of myself as Mother, Wife, daughter, sister, teacher - in that order. I am currently having a “Gap year” – I left my teaching job with my Husband’s blessing and very much in answer to God’s prompting in August 2016. I am now looking and waiting for God to reveal His plan for my life.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s